The Geek’s Guide to Dating
By: Eric Smith (@ericsmithrocks)
Rating: 5 out 5 Stars
I
would not really classify myself as a “Geek” but I have some geek qualities: I
love to read books, I “fanboy” at certain fandoms, collect random popular
culture items (posters and cards), and you can see me at random cons throughout
the year. Well, I guess I am a geek in my own right.
When I
received The Geek’s Guide to Dating in
the mail, I was pretty excited that I was picked to read the book. It was my
first ARC that I have had the opportunity to read. Of course, I kept telling
myself that I would be a “super nerd” if I read this book, but in all honesty,
this book is for everyone (for both males and females). I even read the guide
in one book sitting. I could not put it down. I found myself laughing at his
jokes and various popular culture references, especially his references to
Buffy the Vampire Slayer, Super Smash Brothers, and Pokemon. Although I did not
know every popular culture reference that Smith made, he made it understandable for his
readers. For example, Smith brings up Magic: The Gathering a couple of times
throughout his book. I do not know anything about Magic: The Gathering but after his explanation
of the game and how it compares to dating, I feel like I have a true
understanding to what the game is about. Also, I officially know what an MMO is now. I always
listen to Felicia Day’s song “(Do You Want to Date My) Avatar” and have never
known what an MMO was but now I do. Thanks Eric!
Overall,
Smith’s guide to dating is unique. It is very witty and quirky! He makes the book his own. When Smith provides
information, he does not just list items and bullet points. His guide is told
through a conversation. Smith lets the reader, who he refers to as Player 1, know what they should do when it comes to dating, provides examples
that people can relate to, and even gives the audience commentary to events and examples. By doing
so, the author makes dating relatable to everyone.
Furthermore,
the book is very readable and very organized. The first part of the book is
about learning about who you are before going on a date. People should act to
their true colors and not act like someone their not. After telling people to be
themselves, he provides some commentary on how to ask someone out,
the do and don’ts of dating, making a first impression, how to “read” a first
date, and how to defeat the final boss – aka defining the relationship!
I really
enjoyed reading Smith’s book. If you are a “geek,” go out and buy it. You will
enjoy Smith’s humor and will find his information on dating very beneficial.
There is also something in the guide book for everyone – people who watch
television, play videos games, and represent different fandoms (new and old). Like
Smith said, “We’re eccentric, enthusiastic, intelligent, and occasionally
awkward” (Smith 19). Smith is right; we are all a little awkward. So take your
awkwardness out in the world and find your Player 2!
In
closing, Smith’s guide is a must read! Due to how much I liked it, I will be
purchasing my own official version of the book. So what are you waiting for? Get out there and read it!
Memorable
Quote: “But like all good quests, if you undertake it for the right reasons,
the experience is its own reward” (Smith 12).
